Finally, a first taste of an empty nest

We saw off to his BB mission trip to Cambodia. He went there to teach them first aid, paint the school and basically do some community work. I pray that he will bring back some precious lessons he has learned.

 
Try spotting him

The next day, Ann was off for her annual dance camp. Something she always look forward to. Four days three nights of nothing but dance, dance, dance!

Start of the camp

That night, after class, the spouse and I went for late night supper after 14 years. We went back to the same old place for our teochew porridge. Nothing has changed except that food tasted much better 14 years ago!

Visit to the Bird Park

Yeap, boring stuff we do with the kids during school holidays but you will be amazed…they thoroughly enjoy it. A 14yo and a 10yo. There is still a little child in them and these things make them smile.


   
 
The waterfall is still there.


 
Not very well kept. What a shame. We can spend 10mil on two black and white creatures yet we neglect this place which has become iconic in this country.

Celebration in the midst of the mess!

Yes, we dropped everything and took the day off to celebrate Ann’s 10th birthday while the house was still in a big mess. Doing what she enjoys most. We spent a day at Sentosa.


The Luge



Mdm Tussauds museum at Sentosa


Getting her hand waxed.

Always make time for them

In spite of my very busy and very stressful days, life must still go on. I took time out to attend Ann’s Sports Day and of course to support her. It was boring and hot waiting for her event but I knew that my presence meant a lot to her.




4 x 100 m runner up. Yay!!!

Love these shots I took.




We did it!

Part-time contractor

I have changed house so many times and I have only used one contractor but this time, we decided to change. Remember I wrote about we were stuck with two houses. We decided not to use our usual contractor because we thought it was only prudent to save on renovation work in case we really couldn’t sell the house. (When we started renovating, we have not sold the house)

Lesson learned, good contractors are hard to come by, once you found one, you just have to use him for life.

So, we started renovating our house. First mistake, to tile the tiles horizontally, our tiles were tiled vertically. Can we live with it? Is it a major mistake? Do we have to fuss over it? Ok, it is fine. Will just accept it but please be more careful. Aiyo………………what followed were mistakes and more mistakes. Kitchen tiles became toilet tiles, lights positioned wrongly etc, etc, etc… Finally, the kitchen sliding door was like two plank of wood stuck together. No, that cannot be accepted.

How can someone keep on making mistakes? How can?

At one time, I became the contractor and supervise the workers!
The final straw, the air-con started leaking barely three days into staying in the house. Ok, no more being nice, We threatened legal suit. The big boss came down and did service recovery.



Defects


Raining on the inside 

Sometimes, you just need to create noise until action is taken. The big boss from the renovation company came down, the big boss from the air con company came down. Who likes legal suit? Yes, we actually consulted and got some legal advice.

Does kindness always beget kindness? Frankly, no. Do we continue to be kind? Yes, we do.

The call to obey

Why we shifted house after staying in our new place for just two years…

Months before this year's retreat, we were given this verses one morning...

Deuteronomy 28:12-13

The Lord will open the heavens, the storehouse of his bounty,to send rain on your land in season and to bless all the work of your hands. You will lend to many nations but will borrow from none. The Lord will make you the head, not the tail. If you pay attention to the commands of the Lord your God that I give you this day and carefully follow them, you will always be at the top, never at the bottom.

We did not think much about them except that they were just verses for a QT session.We had no plans to attend this year's retreat but changed our mind when one mother came to ask if her son could be roommate with Kai at the youth retreat. She wanted so badly for him to go. We relented and we all went as a family. Dr Lyn, the speaker for the retreat, kept on repeating the same verses, practically everyday. We knew then that God was dealing with us. When we came back from the retreat, nothing was done to what we have heard. Until one morning, the same verses popped up again, literally, jumping out in another QT session. We were amazed by how God kept pursuing us in this area. We felt we had to obey...thus began a frightening journey of faith. Sometime, in July, we put up our home for sale not knowing what to expect. We had a great offer immediately, we were so happy and so began our new house hunting. Our testing began. The seller back out and we bought our new place. As you are aware, the property market went downwards. Selling a house was no longer easy. In the end, we were stuck with two properties and a "fine" - a huge one. As we cried out to God and wondered if He was fooling with us? We could not take this joke , we are a single income family. The days that followed were days of great testing in our faith. We were reminded of what Rev Edmund Chan told us at our first retreat when we first came back. He said that we must be able to see God's track record in our lives. As we looked as far back as we could, yes, we saw His track records in our lives. We knew we have indeed heard Him. He cannot be wrong. We were thankful for a God-fearing agent who stood by us, prayed with us and finally, on the morning of 3 Sept at 12.30am, our house was sold. A buyer came and gave us a good offer.

We have downgraded from 1249sqft to 936sqft, a smaller house but we still each have our little room and little quiet corners and it is still call a home to us. Most importantly, we are on our way to a completely debt-free life (very rare in Singapore) as God has promised and....we managed to get a refund from the taxman. Yay! As we journeyed thru that period, our children witnessed how faithful God has been, how big our God is and we believed that those were lessons they will bring with them thru adulthood. We do not know yet as to what God has in store for us next but we are assured that we will always have a roof over our head, we could allow our children to pursue their passion, (it won’t be cheap, our kids are very different and we are weird parents, we don’t just follow, we create paths) and we could do what God wants us to do without worries. So there it is, the call to obedience.

When we recognised that Christianity is not a religion but a relationship with God, we live a life of victory!

Isaiah 55:9 & 11

As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways
and my thoughts than your thoughts…so is my word that goes out from my mouth: It will not return to me empty, but will accomplish what I desire and achieve the purpose for which I sent it.

Yes, it has been long, long overdue.

I have been living in a whirlwind life since Sept. The children’s school, exams, going to lawyer’s office (ding-dong-ding-dong), home renovation, two assignments, one project, shift house….one survivor!

Looks like I've made it!

Visit to IMH

There are so much I want to write but circumstances just do not allow it. I have been busy, in fact, busy is an understatement. I have no words to describe what have been happening. For a start, I want to share with you about my visit to IMH which is all part of my study.

I first visited IMH, then, it was called the Woodbridge Hospital when I was in my 20s. I was there with my church group, bringing Christmas cheers and singing carols to the patients. It was a far cry from what I saw today. As I write, the images of Woodbridge Hospital just flooded my mind. It was a run-down place, very dark and dingy. I could still recalled that apart from the mental disorder patients, there were the deformed patients. As a young girl, it was overwhelming to witness all these.
Today, the hospital is so different. It is cheerful, bright and welcoming. It really makes everyone feel better for the patients. That is on the outside.

What I saw inside was heart wrenching. The patients live in bare necessity. They do not even have their own small area to keep their belongings. Yes, I understood the reason for doing that but it is a painful sight to see human dignity stripped down to just the bare minimum when one lives with a mental disorder. Looking back, it seems like my life is destined for the counselling world. At level, I visited St Theresa’s Home that was the place I first visited when I was in my teens. At level 2, I visited IMH, a place I visited when I was in my 20s.

What has God in store for me in this counselling journey? Nothing happens out of coincidence.